Che dolore terribile è l’amore
(What a Terrible Pain Love Is)
: daria deflorian
after We Do Not Part by Han Kang
dramaturgy and direction Daria Deflorian
with Anna Coppola, Daria Deflorian, Monica Piseddu
shared with Monica Piseddu and Andrea Pizzalis
dramaturg Eric Vautrin
set design and assistant director Andrea Pizzalis
lights Giulia Pastore
sound Emanuele Pontecorvo
costumes Ettore Lombardi
technical direction Enrico Maso
artistic consultant Attilio Scarpellini
dramaturgical collaboration Nikolai Palmieri and Blu Silla
for INDEX Valentina Bertolino, Francesco Di Stefano
produced by INDEX
in co-production with Emilia Romagna Teatro ERT / Teatro Nazionale; Piccolo Teatro di Milano – Teatro d’Europa; Teatro di Roma – Teatro Nazionale; Festival d’Avignon; théâtre Garonne, scène européenne – Toulouse
French distribution théâtre Garonne, scène européenne – Toulouse
with the collaboration of Istituto Culturale Coreano in Italia; L’arboreto – Teatro Dimora di Mondaino | Centro di Residenza Emilia-Romagna; Residenza Olinda/TeatroLaCucina
with the support of MiC – Ministry of Culture
premiere at Festival d’Avignon on 13 July 2026, with previews at théâtre Garonne on 6 and 7 July 2026
copyright © Han Kang 2021
copyright © Adelphi 2024
One day Gyeong-ha receives a message from her friend In-seon, who lives on Jeju Island, South Korea. She has injured herself working with wood and has been rushed to the mainland, but has left behind a small bird that risks dying of hunger. In her novel We Do Not Part, Nobel Prize in Literature laureate Han Kang confronts one of the darkest chapters in Korean history: the bloody suppression of the Jeju uprising in 1948. Daria Deflorian traverses and interrogates this unsettling text, sharing with Han Kang a refusal to reduce tragedies to the bare names of cities and the count of the dead. To draw close to that past which refuses to pass, we must allow ourselves to be traversed by human fragility and by everything that inevitably touches us. Perhaps then we will be “admitted among the ghosts”.
Through a lifelong search for a beloved person, the work explores the ways in which the brutal and totalising nature of violence flattens every individuality, but also how a tenacious hope can save a single person who has fallen into oblivion, touching and illuminating the lives of other victims. An “archive of love”, as Didi-Huberman might have said, in which survival passes through fragile, interrupted images, on the verge of disappearing. And yet, obstinately present. Inside and outside the novel, on stage, through three figures, the two central relationships of this affective resistance: the friendship between the two protagonists, and the troubled, hard-won bond between mother and daughter. It is in the carpentry workshop — which In-seon has converted from her mother’s old mandarin orange storehouse — that the action unfolds across a long night in which everything that is evoked has happened before or after, while the dialogues between and with the ghosts are the only true present.